Are you
Related to Me?
For
several years now, I have been trying to find my birth mother and my
half brother. I have registered with various adoption organizations,
and joined several Adoption Forums. To date, I have had no luck.
Now I
think it is time to post the information on my website as a means to
trying to locate my birth family.
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Birth Name:
|
Baby Girl
Parmentier (perhaps PARMENTER) |
|
Adoptive
Name: |
Bonni Alisa
Sugarman |
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Date of
Birth: |
February 28,
1963 |
|
Place of
Birth: |
Bellevue
Hospital, NY, NY |
|
Birth
Mother's Name: |
Norma
Parmentier, aka Norma Santos, aka Norma Marina |
|
Birth
Father's Name: |
Unknown |
|
Attorney:
|
Stanley
Cutler of Rosenhouse & Cutler, Somerset, NJ |
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Adoption
Finalized: |
April 1964 in
New Brunswick, NJ |
Other Information: (Believed to be factual....)
Birth mother was married and while her husband was away in the service
(it is thought that he was a sailor), she had an affair with her boss,
and got pregnant. She decided to put me up for adoption.
I also learned that I have an older (half) brother who would be about
three years older than I am. Not sure of any other siblings.
When I received my adoption papers, part of that information included a
reference by the attorney to a "sister in law", which turned out to be
one of my favorite aunts. My aunt told me that she actually met my birth
mother and said that she was a "darling person". She did not have very
much information, but her story did coincide with the one that my father
told me.
I
was adopted, at four days old, by a wonderful family who lived in East
Brunswick, NJ. I had a very happy childhood, and I do consider myself
lucky. However, my adoptive mother passed away in 2000 of cancer, and my
adoptive father died in 2009 from complications from Alzheimer's
Disease.
I
now find myself wanting to find our more about my family history, my
background, and with a bit of luck, find my birth mother, birth half
brother, and any other family members out there.
I
am not looking to upset anyone's life. I am not even sure that I am
looking for an on-going relationship. Of course, if that happens, I
would welcome it.
I
just want to find out who I really am and where my roots are!
